I’ve not entirely been absent from the internet, but I’ve not been on here for nearly a month now. And looking back over the autumn I wasn’t exactly setting the internet alight.
There’s been reason for my lack of involvement. I haven’t really had the head space to connect with anything much; the new music I have been listening to hasn’t really been getting me overly excited and things happening in the world outside are, frankly, too depressing to focus on. And that’s all because on March 17th or thereabouts there’s another mini-me or mini-wife arriving……
In February I turn 43. I will be a dad of two children younger than the age of 3 at the age of 43. Damn.
My wife has commented on how little I’ve been talking about it all. I am, without a doubt, hugely excited by it and cannot wait to meet the new arrival. But I am terrified! So I have been burying my head in the sand a little. But no more, especially as it’s speeding down the road towards me like a runaway train!!!
And even though we are a family of 3 already, we have no idea whatsoever who is coming to say hello to us. Which makes us feel like this song gets across so well.
January 12, 2012 at 8:57 pm
Don’t worry about being an older dad Simon. I have one mate who’s 52 and his son is one. The only problem will be trying to play football with a zimmer frame. I know what you mean about the 43 thing, it is beginning to trouble me , it seems so much more than 42.
There is certainly a dearth of good new miusic out there, I’m not finding much to get enthused about, matybe Spector but on a good year they would be some way down the list.
January 12, 2012 at 10:25 pm
Fantastic news! Two is, in my exp, ace! x
January 12, 2012 at 10:57 pm
You sound like the luckiest fellow in the world Simon. There aint no handbook, our kid. Your heart should burst with pride.
I wish you all much love and strength
January 12, 2012 at 11:53 pm
Brilliant news Simon. You’re young and they’ll keep you younger just like your other half does. I was my dad’s eldest and he was 43 when I came along – he had a fine old time.
January 13, 2012 at 9:40 am
Congratulations Simon. Age ain’t nothing but a number.
January 13, 2012 at 12:44 pm
sweet dear hold tight. just wait till yer 48. heavens and i’ve not even started yet. kids today i don’t know.
x
January 16, 2012 at 3:12 pm
I’ve started going to a gym so I can keep up with my two. I’ll be 50 this year!
January 19, 2012 at 4:13 am
Hi Simon, thanks for your TK comment at Christmas, and congratulations! I stopped at one offspring, but what a wonderful guy he’s turned out to be, so can’t complain.Belated Christmas and New Year greetings to you and your family! x
January 19, 2012 at 8:03 pm
So happy for you all, Simon. It’s just like MrH says, two is wonderful – joy+joy.
January 19, 2012 at 9:04 pm
Thanks you lot, I’m a lot more relaxed about it now! Apart from trying to think of names.
February 16, 2012 at 9:44 am
How about Spartacus?